The Secret to Giving Good Compliments

Last week, I was at a party with an old friend of mine: a photographer who’s always traveling, charming everyone he meets, and having adventurous sexual encounters with women from all over the world. My photographer friend had just spent a weekend going on romantic adventures, all over Spain, with a model he’d been shooting. What I loved about his … Read More

Aliens and Openers

It’s been a few weeks since I returned from a trip with Neil and a few of his friends from The Society. During our journey through the southwest, the guys role-played that they were part of a clandestine organization that dealt with uncovering alien invaders — an organization called S.M.I.L.E. Each person on the trip received a box of personalized S.M.I.L.E. business cards and a mission: Get … Read More

Fire Sale 2017 – Burning The Past

Remember last year when we dug into the storage space to do some spring-cleaning and we found something amazing… Boxes and boxes (literally a whole pallet) of the old lessons from the early days of the Game. Interviews with Mystery and other PUAs from the book. Neil’s in-field notes and original routines and strategies. Videos of actual PUAs teaching and performing their methods. It was amazing stuff. It was also way … Read More

The Canned Material Controversy

It might surprise you, but everyone, everyday, uses canned material. Most people just aren’t aware of it. People who preach an entirely improvised style tend to stick to the most common conversational threads in the world — they are, ironically, entirely predictable. For example: “Hi,” is the most common opener in the world with common canned follow-up questions like, “Where are you from?” “What’s your … Read More

Why You’re Not Getting Attraction

Are women attracted to you? Today we want to you answer these four questions that will help you with your practice. Is your practice unfocused? Communication is a skill. Like any skill-set, there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common pitfalls students run into is practicing without a focus on something … Read More

Breaking Down A Night As A Wingman

How A Great Wingman Will Break it Down: A few weeks ago, I was out with my friend Alex. He is a single, well put together, and is a practiced conversationalist. Since I’m in a relationship, I’ll be his wingman for the night. I thought it might be helpful to lay out some of the moments from the night, regarding … Read More

What Naturals At Pick Up Won’t Admit

Have you ever been to a party where there was some guy or gal who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories? A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives? Ever wondered how you could tell stories that have the same effect?   The answer: Turn … Read More

What To Do After The Opener

The principle behind starting a conversation is to make the group comfortable, but once they’re comfortable, what comes next? The answer is simple – ask a question or make an observation. It’s called bridging, and it’s a skill that any seducer must be comfortable with. The Bridge Technique: A bridge is a way to propel a conversation forward and steer … Read More

Is Being Alone Bad For Your Health?

As a dating coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot. The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships. That said, we don’t often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let’s stop ignoring this issue and take … Read More