How To Track Your Progress In Pick Up

The Olympics are an amazing time to watch people at their absolute best and the 2016 Rio Olympics were no exception. • Simone Manuel became the first African American woman to win a Gold in swimming. • Fiji won their first Gold Medal as a country in Rugby. • Monica Puig won the first ever Gold Medal for Puerto Rico … Read More

Don’t Forget The Ending – And Other Social Storytelling Tips

Have you ever said to someone, “Oh yeah, I love that movie. It was awesome.” And that was it? You stopped. Did you know that every time you respond like that you’re wasting a potential opportunity for a romantic connection? A response to a topic as basic as movie preference is a fantastic place in conversation to build value and express … Read More

There Is No Such Thing As Day Game

When it comes to how to attract women, there is a lot of bad information out there. Today, I’d like to shed some light on two topics that come up regularly with students: 1. Approach Anxiety To deal with approach anxiety, try giving yourself a plan for the night. It’s one of the best practices you can put into effect. … Read More

Don’t Be That Guy

Have you ever had a friend who ruined a perfectly good conversation by being overly arrogant? Have you ever been that guy? You know, the one who suddenly makes an outrageous, cocky or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide-eyed. Then the girls you’ve been talking to give each other that look, make an excuse, and walk away, never to … Read More

3 Texting Techniques You Should Memorize

Whether you got the number during a cold approach or from a dating app like Tinder – texting can be frustrating. Unfortunately, in today’s world texting girls is unavoidable. So, here are 3 techniques you should memorize to improve your texting skills: 1. The “Either, Or” Text: The brain is hardwired to make decisions, so giving someone a choice between … Read More

Passionate People Are Interesting People

One of the greatest moments you’ll have when studying attraction is this… You’ll approach someone you were initially intimidated by, you two will generate thoughtful conversation, and then you’ll hear some variation this sentence: “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in years.” You might think that the great moment will be some feat of sexual whatever, but … Read More

Passionate Storytelling Tips

One of the greatest moments you’ll have when studying seduction is this… You’ll approach someone you were initially intimidated by, you two will generate thoughtful conversation, and then you’ll hear some variation this sentence:  “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in years.” You might think that the great moment will be some feat of sexual whatever, but it’s … Read More

The Jealous Girlfriend Opener

The Jealous Girlfriend opener is one of the first openers that most people test out after first reading the Game by Neil Strauss. Behind every opener or conversation starter, there is a principle. It holds true whether you know what you’re doing or not. It holds true whether you’re a guy or a gal, gay or straight, or whether it’s … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community           From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. I met … Read More

Sexual Consent: What you should have learned in Health Class

What is Appropriate Sexual Consent? This is not a topic that was covered in depth in The Game book, but it should have been, so we are presenting it here: Rule 1: Only an enthusiastic yes means yes. Everything else is no. Consent means hearing the word “yes.” Silence isn’t consent. “Maybe” isn’t consent. “I guess so” isn’t consent and … Read More