How to Adventure in a New City: Part 1

The Sneak and I are leaving for Australia. This is our first Stylelife bootcamp in Australia, as well as our first time ever visiting the country. Here’s the system we use to have an exciting and rewarding time as we hop from city to city, even if we’ve never been there before. 1. Find a Place to Stay There’s almost … Read More

What Could Have Been?

Emma writes: Loving someone who doesn’t feel the same way sucks. I don’t need a lengthy explanation of the amount it sucks or all the different ways in which unequal love sucks. We all know that it does. What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger and blah, blah, blah. Yep, still sucks. What’s even worse though is living in perpetual … Read More

Where You Will Shine

Emma writes: For each of the approximately one hundred first dates I have been on in my life, I can remember where I went. I sometimes can’t remember the guy’s name or what I wore, but I know what we did and similarly how much time I spent with him. After a man’s shining and sparkling self-declared strengths, the date … Read More

Confidence – The State of Being Certain

Emma writes: What women want: confidence. Hands down the number one thing a woman is looking for in a man is confidence. Not to be confused with arrogance or cockiness, confidence is defined by Webster as “the quality or state of being certain.” And the secondary classification is “the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something.” … Read More

Sharing Vs Oversharing – First Date Fodder

Authenticity is a beautiful thing – especially in men. Women in general are attracted to men who are themselves. No one likes a sugar coater, liar, or hider. Tell us what gets you out of bed in the morning. Revel in your passions. We want to know about you, or we wouldn’t have said yes. Just don’t tell us everything. … Read More

Halloween Tips

As promised, here are some Halloween Seduction Tips from our top coaches Evolve and the Sneak: ——————————————————————————– 3 Tips to Getting the Ghoul, erm, Girl, on Halloween: ——————————————————————————– 1. Choose your costume wisely. Halloween allows you to be whatever you want for one night. If you’re just learning to be a seductive person, then you should take this opportunity to … Read More

Fashion Do's and Dont's

It’s always useful to review some basic fashion “Do’s” and “Don’ts.” Today, we’ll cover what you should do. Next article, we’ll look at the things to avoid. Let’s get right into those fashion “Do’s”: 1) Do match your accessories. When it comes to watches, belt buckles, necklaces, rings, and all other jewelry, you generally have two main options, gold or … Read More

Tweaking your openers

Let’s talk about openers. Some guys make the mistake of feeling like they need to compile an endless library of openers. But that’s not necessary, because with a few tweaks, you can present older material in brand new ways. Here’s a short lesson on how changing the root and the delivery can make any one opener versatile enough for any … Read More

3 ways to improve your conversation

Most men who have problems thinking they will “run out of material” with women actually have a deeper problem. It’s not that they don’t have much to say, but rather that they simply haven’t spoken to many people. Usually they just talk to very close friends, and when they do it’s about topics that are so individualistic (computers, games, being … Read More

How to stay ahead of objections

As soon as you approach a woman or group of people you don’t know, they think two things: 1. What does he want? 2. How long is he going to stay here? If you can satisfactorily answer both of these questions, you can avoid the sting of rejection. If not, you will hear the words that are the anathema of … Read More