Building your attractive body

If you think looks don’t matter when it comes to seduction – you’re wrong. They matter. How could they not? It would be pretty foolish of us to think that women aren’t attracted to physically attractive guys. That said, I want to ask you this: Are you doing anything to improve your looks? As coaches, The Sneak and I focus … Read More

Stylelife Interview: Nicole

This time, we turn to Nicole, an actress originally from Northern California currently living in SoCal.Stylelife dispatched a coach to chat with Nicole about inquisitive dates, the allure of musicians, and bad bloodsucking comments. Stylelife: If your friends were to describe you in three words what would they say? Nicole: That’s a tough one. Inquisitive, quirky, and positive. Stylelife: What … Read More

Stylelife Bootcamp: A Female Perspective

Emma writes… Part II A female observer or participant has never been inside the social sanctum of a Stylelife Bootcamp. But I’ve been working with the team for a while now, and they extended the invitation for me to tag along. I was a little nervous and unsure what to expect. A Woman’s Experiences at Stylelife Pickup Bootcamp When I … Read More

Skillful Seduction: A Female Perspective

Emma writes… Part I I recently asked some of my girlfriends about their views on men who are eager to learn the kind of stuff Stylelife teaches. I asked that they be honest on their opinion and thoughts about guys who beef up their knowledge of women before heading out on the town approaching women. What do women think of … Read More

Practice Being Your Best Most Authentic Self

Authentic self

You might not be able to be Indiana Jones, but there’s one thing you definitely can be: Your best self. There is literally no excuse for not being the most-excellent man you can be. What’s more, this allows you to be your more authentic self. Fewer things are going to give you a more fulfilling life or become more attractive … Read More

Falling in Love, scientifically

Emma writes: After lengthy discussions and a four-part series dissecting what it means for us to fall in love and the three stages of love, I wondered the impact of this knowledge on the actual act of falling in love. Are we less-likely to ‘fall’ head-over-heels if we are hyper-aware of what is happening in our bodies? Does our knowledge … Read More

Romantic Connection Blackouts

  Most of the guys we talk to tell us that they’re not looking for one-night stands or hookup buddies. You’ve been there, you’ve done that and you’re over it. What you’re really looking for is a woman that you can make a connection with. However, just wanting isn’t enough to make it happen. In fact, the same men who … Read More

She Judges You By This, So Make the Most of It

There’s the old cliche that women immediately notice the quality of a man’s shoes. Some of this is attribute to gender stereotypes and the notion that females are opposed by those things you just think of as covering for your feet. However, there is undoubtedly some truth to the cliche. Some published accounts state that 64% of women judge a … Read More

9 Questions to Define Your Fashion Persona

In our last post on proper suit selection, we described the differences in more dressy attire. But many guys wrote in and said they didn’t even know how to begin with overhauling their wardrobe. There are tons of lessons and missions on this always-informational topic in Stylelife. But for a quick overview, here’s what you need to know. Here’s an … Read More

The System of Selecting a Proper Suit

Casual Friday’s took the world too far into the slovenly direction. So the pendulum began to swing back to more buttoned up, more polished ways of dress. Plus, pop culture characters like Barney Stinson in How I Met Your Mother and Jacob Palmer in Crazy Stupid Love demonstrated just how sexy a suit can be when worn properly. But many … Read More