What To Do After The Opener

The principle behind starting a conversation is to make the group comfortable, but once they’re comfortable, what comes next? The answer is simple – ask a question or make an observation. It’s called bridging, and it’s a skill that anyone working on improving their social skills should be comfortable with. The Bridge Technique: A bridge is a way to propel … Read More

Is Being Alone Bad For Your Health?

As a dating coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot. The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships. That said, we don’t often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let’s stop ignoring this issue and take … Read More

The Link Between Likeability And The Social Matrix

You’re here because you sense something. What you sense you can’t explain, but you feel it. You’ve felt as long as you can remember, some people have an advantage over everyone else. You don’t know exactly why, but it’s there, some force is at play. The force is likeability. Being a well-liked person opens doors and opportunities within the social … Read More

Scripted Material and Authenticity In Social Situations

Recently Neil has been stressing the importance of core values, or what we refer to as your Inner Game. The new Stylelife teaches these core values that can radically change all aspects of your life and make you a much more attractive person to others. He has even challenged all of us here at Stylelife to discuss our personal core … Read More

2 Things That Make You Look Extra Attractive

As you know, your clothes speak volumes, because what you wear is an extension of your identity, and that affects your personal attractiveness to the opposite sex. The right outfit can have people coming up to you without a word and engaging in conversations. It’s almost like magic. For those of us in the northern hemisphere, the winter weather is … Read More

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO SET UP A DATE?

If I told you a technique for exchanging phone numbers that could instantly reveal whether they’d show up for a date — how much would it be worth to you? Well, how about I just give it to you? If you want to learn it, then read on. The biggest mistake most people make when they’re setting up dates is … Read More

Knowing Your City Can Change Your Dating Life

What do you know about the world around you? It could be your biggest advantage in the dating game. Students on the path to mastering the social matrix must know their environment. The better an understanding the student has, the easier it will be to set up dates, meetings, and events that your dates will actually be interested in. 1. … Read More

Secret Agent Social Skills

Last year Neil asked me to join him on a trip to Las Vegas to learn some secret agent skills. It was crazy, to say the least. When I was there, Neil surprised me again, by asking me a room full of guys the social skills that a secret agent might use. I couldn’t have been more excited; I’ve read just … Read More

How To Find A Great Wingman

THE POWER OF A GREAT WINGMAN Do you ever feel like you need a friend? A partner? Are you more motivated in a team? Do you enjoy buddy cop movies? Nothing can motivate you to up your Game like an excellent wingman. In the early days of the Game, we not only had a wingman, we had a whole team … Read More

Don’t Be that person: Be Confident, Not Arrogant

Have you ever had a friend who ruined a perfectly good conversation by being overly arrogant? Or worse: Have you ever been that person? You know, the one who suddenly makes an outrageous, cocky or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide-eyed.Then the people you’ve been talking to give each other that look, make an excuse, and walk away, never to … Read More