What Naturals At Pick Up Won’t Admit

Have you ever been to a party where there was some guy or gal who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories? A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives? Ever wondered how you could tell stories that have the same effect?   The answer: Turn … Read More

SCRIPTED MATERIAL AND AUTHENTICITY IN PICK-UP

Recently Neil has been stressing the importance of core values, or what we refer to as your Inner Game. The new Stylelife teaches these core values that can radically change all aspects of your life and make you a much more attractive person to others. He has even challenged all of us here at Stylelife to discuss our personal core … Read More

Dipping The Pen In The Company Ink: Dating Classmates And Coworkers

What do you do if you want to get romantic with someone you run into on a regular basis, like a co-worker or a classmate?  1. Be patient If you’re going to try and get romantic with someone you see regularly, then take your time. Remember, you’re going to see them regularly. That means you don’t have to do everything … Read More

So Easy My Mother Could Do It

So, my mother has been asking random strangers whether they floss before they brush. Like dozens of them. And so far, no one has “busted” her on it, even though this opener has been all over television, in books, and on the Internet. It’s funny because she really wants to know the answer. She’s been asking waitresses, neighbors, and even … Read More

Powerful Answers For Tricky Questions (ex: “Why are you still single?”)

Recently, a couple of my students were thrown off balance when a woman asked them, “Why are you still single?” Here’s a process to create the perfect answer that answers not only that question but any questions you encounter that feel tricky to navigate. 1. When you get home, think about how you answered that question when you were in field. … Read More

Humor and Seduction: Quick Tips

Ask any woman you meet to name qualities she looks for in a potential mate and she’ll almost always mention sense of humor. Sense of humor, however, is not well defined. What does it mean to have a good sense of humor, specifically, when it comes to dating? What should any student of seduction know when it comes to joking … Read More

How to Polish Your Cold Approaches and Start Comfortable Conversations

The first step in a cold approach is opening. To do that we use openers, techniques that allow us to start a comfortable conversation with a person or group. With practice they become a fantastic method for initiating an interaction, but what happens next? What do you do after you start a conversation? You try to reach the hook point. … Read More

Scarcity & The Social Matrix

It’s time to let go. Self-doubt. Disbelief. These are self-imposed shackles on your mind. They inhibit your potential. You will not succeed at pretending to be a high-value person. You must truly know you are one. Getting stuck in a halfway place, trying hard to make it work, but not truly believing leads to disaster.  You don’t value your own time. … Read More

Likeability & The Social Matrix

You’re here because you sense something. What you sense you can’t explain, but you feel it. You’ve felt as long as you can remember, some people have an advantage over everyone else. You don’t know exactly why, but it’s there, some force is at play. The force is likeability.  Being a well-liked person opens doors and opportunities within the social matrix. Let’s explore 3 ways you … Read More

Authority & The Social Matrix

I don’t know if you’re ready to see what I want to show you. When faced with it, your mind will send you in one of two directions. You deny it. That’s that. You believe what you want to believe and life goes on as it has before. Or, you process it and dive deeper than ever into your understanding of the Social Matrix. … Read More