Is Being Alone Bad For Your Health?

As a dating coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot. The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships. That said, we don’t often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let’s stop ignoring this issue and take … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. … Read More

Dig Up Your Own Dirt

In interviews, journalists frequently ask me why I chose to work with this celebrity or that musician. The fact is that I’ve received scores more offers to ghost-write books than I’ve accepted. Many of these offers have been from artists and celebrities I greatly admired. And my decision to work with someone has usually come down to one question: Are … Read More

So Easy My Mother Could Do It

So, my mother has been asking random strangers whether they floss before they brush. Like dozens of them. And so far, no one has “busted” her on it, even though this opener has been all over television, in books, and on the Internet. It’s funny because she really wants to know the answer. She’s been asking waitresses, neighbors, and even … Read More

Be The Storyteller: Making Words Your Stock and Trade

Dear Stylelifers, I was flipping channels late one night and came across one of the most useful movies you can watch to improve your storytelling skills. And not just that, this classic old movie will help you realize that so many of the qualities you used to hide are actually the traits you should emphasize. Those traits will establish you … Read More