Perfecting Your Practice: Four Mistakes Every Student Makes

Practicing without focus. Social skills are… skills. Like any skill-set there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common problems people run into is not practicing, and more than that, practicing without focus. Learning any skill is a step-by-step process, you can’t learn it all in one night. … Read More

Social Intelligence Cheat Sheet

People are always asking for a quick way to remember the steps of Social Dynamics for landing a date or meeting up with someone again. So we put it together into its shortest and most potent form: a cheat sheet for you to print. This is priceless if you’re new to social intelligence training, but even if you are advanced … Read More

Debate: Is it a Good Idea to Delete Your Dating Apps?

Our recent article detailing 4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating Apps generated a huge amount of email commentary. Some readers agreed with the advice. Others, not so much. Healthy, constructive debate is always a good thing at Stylelife. During our upcoming seduction master class, Style will tell students over and over again that we’re not concerned with dogma, with marking … Read More

Making the Transition

How to Establish a Strong Foundation for Your Relatinship It was a beautiful moment, the highlight of a great year, when she looked at me and said “Yes, I would love to be your girlfriend.” It was also a terrifying moment. As a social artist who had been immersed in the thrill of the chase and the grip of uncertainty … Read More

Date Losing Energy? Employ The Resuscitation Routine

During the course of a date, you may run out of things to say. You may feel your attention begin to wane and your mind wander. Or worse, you may notice your date going through these things. Even if you’re really interested in the woman and you’re really on your game, it can happen. You can employ the Resuscitation Routine … Read More

Peacocking Versus Being Fashionable

Peacock is a verb defined as, “to dress in loud clothing or with flashy accoutrements in order to get attention from women.” This concept excites novice social artists who have in the past repressed the desire to stand out. The travesty is that some social artists never make the transition from peacock to a more inner-defined style. The wearing of … Read More

Live in a Dump? It Doesn't Have to Hinder Your Social Life

My Job, Car, & Home All Suck: How to Be Proud, High Value, and Attract Women, Even When Times are Tough Part 3 of a 3 Installment Series A lot of people blame their lack of social success on some aspect of their life. In this series, we’ve covered all the bases. In our first installment, we looked at what … Read More

Stepping Up in Class

How to Date Out of Your League Look, I’m not going to sugar coat this… People say, “There is no such thing as leagues, that’s just negative thinking, you can get any girl!” I respectfully disagree. If I could date anyone it would be, supermodel, Kate Upton. The problem is that she is out of my league, but I’m working … Read More

Rescuing Canned Material

The Old Standbys are Successful for a Reason It’s the same old story, but I don’t want to be rude. So I let the guy continue. “I don’t wanna use canned material,” he says. Then he trots out the usual justifications. It just doesn’t feel right. It’s not his style. It won’t work because it won’t be congruent. He wants … Read More

The Values of Finance While Dating

Money remains an odd topic in our society. As a culture, we idolize millionaires and billionaires, we watch shows like MTV’s Cribs and VH1’s The Fabulous Life, and all the Hollywood reality shows, and we memorize intricate details of salary cap hits for the number one draft pick’s contract. But in spite of our financial obsession, money is still a … Read More