How To Track Your Progress In Pick Up

The Olympics are an amazing time to watch people at their absolute best and the 2016 Rio Olympics were no exception. • Simone Manuel became the first African American woman to win a Gold in swimming. • Fiji won their first Gold Medal as a country in Rugby. • Monica Puig won the first ever Gold Medal for Puerto Rico … Read More

Don’t Forget The Ending – And Other Social Storytelling Tips

Have you ever said to someone, “Oh yeah, I love that movie. It was awesome.” And that was it? You stopped. Did you know that every time you respond like that you’re wasting a potential opportunity for a romantic connection? A response to a topic as basic as movie preference is a fantastic place in conversation to build value and express … Read More

Don’t Be That Guy

Have you ever had a friend who ruined a perfectly good conversation by being overly arrogant? Have you ever been that guy? You know, the one who suddenly makes an outrageous, cocky or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide-eyed. Then the girls you’ve been talking to give each other that look, make an excuse, and walk away, never to … Read More

3 Texting Techniques You Should Memorize

Whether you got the number during a cold approach or from a dating app like Tinder – texting can be frustrating. Unfortunately, in today’s world texting girls is unavoidable. So, here are 3 techniques you should memorize to improve your texting skills: 1. The “Either, Or” Text: The brain is hardwired to make decisions, so giving someone a choice between … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. … Read More

Crappy Car, Awful Job, Great Seducer

Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to attract romantic partners if you don’t have much money? It certainly is. Let’s examine some of the most common worries one at a time: IF YOU THINK YOUR JOB SUCKS Every job in this world serves an important purpose. In my life, before I taught seduction, I cleaned toilets. It’s not glamorous, but if nobody had that … Read More

Quick Confidence Boosters for Making Approaches

There’s this trick the coaches and I have learned over the past few years of teaching bootcamps that can boost your confidence just enough to get you approaching. This trick, if done right before you walk into a set, can give you a boost of confidence that will get you talking to beautiful women. The best thing about this trick … Read More

Perfecting Your Practice: Four Mistakes Every Student Makes

Practicing without focus. Seduction is a skill. Like any skill-set there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common bad situations guys run into to us unfocused practice. Learning any skill is a step-by-step process, you can’t learn it all in one night. Choose some material you like … Read More

The Attract and Seduce Book – Official Movie Trailer

For the launch of Attract and Seduce, we wanted to things a little differently, because with the help of what we call the OACS team, we have created a book that will change the lives of thousands to come. The video trailer is one of those things. Check it out here:    

Cheat Sheet for you to print out

Neil might be married now, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t use Game anymore. Any guy who thinks otherwise is clearly not married. In fact, one of the most important things that I’ve learned during my time in the Game is that it applies to just about every human aspect of human social interaction. However, there’s a structure involved. When … Read More