Don’t Be That Guy

Have you ever had a friend who ruined a perfectly good conversation by being overly arrogant? Have you ever been that guy? You know, the one who suddenly makes an outrageous, cocky or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide-eyed. Then the girls you’ve been talking to give each other that look, make an excuse, and walk away, never to … Read More

3 Texting Techniques You Should Memorize

Whether you got the number during a cold approach or from a dating app like Tinder – texting can be frustrating. Unfortunately, in today’s world texting girls is unavoidable. So, here are 3 techniques you should memorize to improve your texting skills: 1. The “Either, Or” Text: The brain is hardwired to make decisions, so giving someone a choice between … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. … Read More

Crappy Car, Awful Job, Great Seducer

Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to attract romantic partners if you don’t have much money? It certainly is. Let’s examine some of the most common worries one at a time: IF YOU THINK YOUR JOB SUCKS Every job in this world serves an important purpose. In my life, before I taught seduction, I cleaned toilets. It’s not glamorous, but if nobody had that … Read More

Quick Confidence Boosters for Making Approaches

There’s this trick the coaches and I have learned over the past few years of teaching bootcamps that can boost your confidence just enough to get you approaching. This trick, if done right before you walk into a set, can give you a boost of confidence that will get you talking to beautiful women. The best thing about this trick … Read More

Perfecting Your Practice: Four Mistakes Every Student Makes

Practicing without focus. Seduction is a skill. Like any skill-set there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common bad situations guys run into to us unfocused practice. Learning any skill is a step-by-step process, you can’t learn it all in one night. Choose some material you like … Read More

The Attract and Seduce Book – Official Movie Trailer

For the launch of Attract and Seduce, we wanted to things a little differently, because with the help of what we call the OACS team, we have created a book that will change the lives of thousands to come. The video trailer is one of those things. Check it out here:    

Cheat Sheet for you to print out

Neil might be married now, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t use Game anymore. Any guy who thinks otherwise is clearly not married. In fact, one of the most important things that I’ve learned during my time in the Game is that it applies to just about every human aspect of human social interaction. However, there’s a structure involved. When … Read More

Time is Running Out to Register for Master Class

Limited Seats Remain for Style’s First Ever Seduction Master Class This is the final week, after which Seduction Master Class tickets prices escalate quickly. The BIG event will be going down in two weeks and we’ve got only 17 tickets left. We are about to send out an email to hundreds of thousands of people. So, get your ticket today, … Read More

Debate: Is it a Good Idea to Delete Your Dating Apps?

Our recent article detailing 4 Reasons to Delete Your Dating Apps generated a huge amount of email commentary. Some readers agreed with the advice. Others, not so much. Healthy, constructive debate is always a good thing at Stylelife. During our upcoming seduction master class, Style will tell students over and over again that we’re not concerned with dogma, with marking … Read More