The Ben Franklin Effect

There’s an old maxim saying, “He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged.” Last email, In our exploration of Reciprocation, we imagined a person failing to woo a stranger by offering them something like a drink or a meal. What if, however, the stranger ended up buying a drink … Read More

The Power of Reciprocation

If you’ve ever consumed a free sample, and then purchased the product, you’ve experienced the power of reciprocation first hand. If you give someone something, then they are inclined to give back. It’s unavoidable; human nature. So how does reciprocation apply to the social matrix? There are times that gifts are appropriate in a relationship. Countless friendships and romances included … Read More

Should You Ask For A Threesome?

This is not a subject for the faint of heart. An intimate experience with two people at the same time is a fantasy for many. It’s something that Neil wrote a lot about in his book The Truth. But how do you know if someone is ready for that kind of experience? How can you be sure that they’re open … Read More

Why You’re Not Getting Attraction

Are You Really Practicing Social Skills? Today we want to you answer these four questions that will help you with your practice. Is your practice unfocused? Communication is a skill. Like any skill-set, there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common pitfalls students run into is practicing without a focus on … Read More

Storytelling Like A Pro

Have you ever been to a party where there was some person who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories? A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives? Ever wondered how you could tell stories that have the same effect? The answer: Practice your stories. Everyone has … Read More

Is Being Alone Bad For Your Health?

As a dating coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot. The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships. That said, we don’t often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let’s stop ignoring this issue and take … Read More

2 Things That Make You Look Extra Attractive

As you know, your clothes speak volumes, because what you wear is an extension of your identity, and that affects your personal attractiveness to the opposite sex. The right outfit can have people coming up to you without a word and engaging in conversations. It’s almost like magic. For those of us in the northern hemisphere, the winter weather is … Read More

Quick Confidence Boosters for Making Approaches

There’s this trick the coaches and I have learned over the past few years of teaching bootcamps that can boost your confidence just enough to get you approaching. This trick, if done right before you walk into a set, can give you a boost of confidence that will get you talking to beautiful women. The best thing about this trick … Read More

Why an Indirect Approach is Almost Always Best

Have you found yourself contemplating the difference between a ‘direct’ approach and an ‘indirect’ approach? Have you engaged in philosophical debates about the subject in online forums? Then here’s a scientific answer for you… If you’re interested in seeing how science proves Stylelife strategies, check out: Attraction & Seduction Study Series But first, let’s address one thing. At Stylelife, we … Read More

The Science of Love

Now we come to the conclusion of our four-part series. We’ve taught you about the science of attraction, the science of seduction and the science of love. All very different things underpinning the various stages of dating. Now it’s time to talk about what the ultimate goal of your dating life — the science of love. Getting a woman to … Read More