Apply Every Social Technique Ever

“How do I know when to apply a particular technique?” One of my 1-on-1 Monthly Coaching students asked me this question last week. And it’s not uncommon. When someone first starts practicing social skills, they’re working on developing an awareness of social situations. They do this through testing out material and noting when something works and when something doesn’t. If they’re repeatedly hitting the same sticking … Read More

Two Value Building Items For Every Wardrobe

As you know, your clothes speak volumes, because what you wear is an extension of your identity, and that affects your personal attractiveness. The right outfit can have people coming up to you without a word and engaging in conversations. It’s almost like magic. For those of us in the northern hemisphere, the winter weather is still here, and in … Read More

How To Troubleshoot You Sticking Points

Ready to troubleshoot your social intelligence skills? Here are some tips… 1. Learn to Learn. The most important skill you can have, in the social intelligence and in life, is to know how to learn. If you are going out every day and doing the same thing over and over, just hoping one day that it will start working, then … Read More

Do you know how to set up a date?

If I told you a technique for exchanging phone numbers that could instantly reveal whether they’d show up for a date — how much would it be worth to you? Well, how about I just give it to you? The biggest mistake most people make when they set up a date is… Exchanging contact info before setting up a date. … Read More

How To Find A Great Wingman

THE POWER OF A GREAT WINGMAN Do you ever feel like you need a friend? A partner? Are you more motivated in a team? Do you enjoy buddy cop movies? Nothing can motivate you to up your Game like an excellent wingman. In the early days of the Game, we not only had a wingman, we had a whole team … Read More

Stylelife Field Report – She Kiss Closed Me

  Today, I’m going to keep it brief. I simply want to share an awesome field report from a Stylelife student. It’s a great example of moving from opening to the first kiss using the lessons in the Stylelife program. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Field Report =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=  I entered the bar scene with my trusty wing Zeus, who, much to his credit sends my value through the … Read More

Stylelife Interview: Christina

In this installment, our boot camp coach extraordinaire spoke to Christina about interacting with female bartenders, about dream dates, and stories of oral sex gone terribly wrong. Christina is a Chicago native who met the coaches during their world tour travels. She’s been working in the bar and club industry since she was 18-years-old. Stylelife: So you’re currently a bartender? … Read More

Heroic Mindset: Become a Hero

As coaches we hear the same tale time and time again. Maybe she was a friend of yours in school, but you secretly desired her as more than a friend. Perhaps she is a lady you once took on a date, that went well, but you never pulled the trigger. She is a woman of a thousand faces, but one part of … Read More

Crappy Car, Awful Job, Great Social Skills

Have you ever wondered if it’s possible to attract romantic partners if you don’t have much money? It certainly is. Let’s examine some of the most common worries one at a time: IF YOU THINK YOUR JOB SUCKS Every job in this world serves an important purpose. In my life, before I taught seduction, I cleaned toilets. It’s not glamorous, but if nobody had that … Read More

Powerful Answers For Tricky Questions (ex: “Why are you still single?”)

Recently, a couple of my students were thrown off balance when a woman asked them, “Why are you still single?” Here’s a process to create the perfect answer that answers not only that question but any questions you encounter that feel tricky to navigate. 1. When you get home, think about how you answered that question when you were in field. … Read More