The Jealous Girlfriend Opener

The Jealous Girlfriend opener is one of the first openers that most people test out after first reading The Game. Behind every opener or conversation starter, there is a principle. It holds true whether you know what you’re doing or not. It holds true regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or the environment. To start a conversation with strangers, the person … Read More

Stylelife Interview: April O’neil

This time, The Sneak spoke to April, a popular model, performer, and unrepentant geek. She was born in Phoenix, Arizona and has lived in Los Angeles, California since 2007. Her passion for the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Dr. Who is well-documented and a driving creative force in her life. Stylelife: What’s the most common way that a guy hits … Read More

Stylelife Interview: Christina

In this installment, our boot camp coach extraordinaire spoke to Christina about interacting with female bartenders, about dream dates, and stories of oral sex gone terribly wrong. Christina is a Chicago native who met the coaches during their world tour travels. She’s been working in the bar and club industry since she was 18-years-old. Stylelife: So you’re currently a bartender? … Read More

Be The Storyteller: Making Words Your Stock and Trade

I was flipping channels late one night and came across one of the most useful movies you can watch to improve your storytelling skills. And not just that, this classic old movie will help you realize that so many of the qualities you used to hide are actually the traits you should emphasize. Those traits will establish you as “the … Read More

Powerful Answers For Tricky Questions (ex: “Why are you still single?”)

Recently, a couple of my students were thrown off balance when a woman asked them, “Why are you still single?” Here’s a process to create the perfect answer that answers not only that question but any questions you encounter that feel tricky to navigate. 1. When you get home, think about how you answered that question when you were in field. … Read More

Humor and Attractiveness: Quick Tips

Ask anyone you meet to name qualities they looks for in a potential date and they’ll almost always mention sense of humor. Sense of humor, however, is not well defined. What does it mean to have a good sense of humor, specifically, when it comes to dating and socializing? What should any you know when it comes to joking around? … Read More

How to Polish Your Cold Approaches and Start Comfortable Conversations

The first step in a starting a conversation is opening. To do that we use openers, techniques that allow us to start a comfortable conversation with a person or group. With practice, openers are a fantastic tool for starting a conversation. The openers we teach at Stylelife are designed to do four things: Arouse curiosity – they’re more interesting than … Read More

Text Game Tips

It doesn’t matter if you met someone out at a bar or on Tinder: You wish you were better at texting. And why wouldn’t you? It’s 2016 and while texting technology isn’t exactly in its infancy anymore, you have a fraction of the experience with this that you do with talking to potential dates in the flesh. You can improve … Read More

Stylelife Interview: Stephanie

In this installment of the series, The Sneak talked to Stephanie, a model and artist from Southern California. Far from your stereotypical fake and superficial Hollywood party girl, Stephanie was impressively candid about a number of topics that really humanize the idea of meeting, connecting, and dating a woman. And once The Sneak discovered she had a longterm love of … Read More

Stylelife Interview: Alicia

  This time, The Sneak spoke to Alicia, a bar veteran employed in a venue that features interesting employee outfits, to say the least. They discussed meeting women who work in bars, life like a Disney movie, and improving your social skills. Stylelife: You work in a bar where you dress in a sexy French maid outfit, you must get … Read More