What To Do After The Opener

The principle behind starting a conversation is to make the group comfortable, but once they’re comfortable, what comes next? The answer is simple – ask a question or make an observation. It’s called bridging, and it’s a skill that any seducer must be comfortable with. The Bridge Technique: A bridge is a way to propel a conversation forward and steer … Read More

Is Being Alone Bad For Your Health?

As a dating coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot. The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships. That said, we don’t often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let’s stop ignoring this issue and take … Read More

Unlock Your Critical Mind For More Confidence

What if I gave you a technique to free yourself from the part of your mind that holds you back when you practice? Would you try it? You should… Sometimes plain old dating advice is not enough.  You need to dig deeper. Mastering the Social Matrix can be a painful journey; one that requires facing rejection. If you don’t bother … Read More

Knowing Your City Can Change Your Dating Life

What do you know about the world around you? It could be your biggest advantage in the dating game. Students on the path to mastering the social matrix must know their environment. The better an understanding the student has, the easier it will be to set up dates, meetings, and events that your dates will actually be interested in. 1. … Read More

Don’t Be That Guy

Have you ever had a friend who ruined a perfectly good conversation by being overly arrogant? Have you ever been that guy? You know, the one who suddenly makes an outrageous, cocky or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide-eyed. Then the girls you’ve been talking to give each other that look, make an excuse, and walk away, never to … Read More

Passionate People Are Interesting People

One of the greatest moments you’ll have when studying attraction is this… You’ll approach someone you were initially intimidated by, you two will generate thoughtful conversation, and then you’ll hear some variation this sentence: “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in years.” You might think that the great moment will be some feat of sexual whatever, but … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. … Read More