Aliens and Openers

It’s been a few weeks since I returned from a trip with Neil and a few of his friends from The Society. During our journey through the southwest, the guys role-played that they were part of a clandestine organization that dealt with uncovering alien invaders — an organization called S.M.I.L.E. Each person on the trip received a box of personalized S.M.I.L.E. business cards and a mission: Get … Read More

Fire Sale 2017 – Burning The Past

Remember last year when we dug into the storage space to do some spring-cleaning and we found something amazing… Boxes and boxes (literally a whole pallet) of the old lessons from the early days of the Game. Interviews with Mystery and other PUAs from the book. Neil’s in-field notes and original routines and strategies. Videos of actual PUAs teaching and performing their methods. It was amazing stuff. It was also way … Read More

Why You’re Not Getting Attraction

Are women attracted to you? Today we want to you answer these four questions that will help you with your practice. Is your practice unfocused? Communication is a skill. Like any skill-set, there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common pitfalls students run into is practicing without a focus on something … Read More

THE LINK BETWEEN LIKEABILITY & THE SOCIAL MATRIX

You’re here because you sense something. What you sense you can’t explain, but you feel it. You’ve felt as long as you can remember, some people have an advantage over everyone else. You don’t know exactly why, but it’s there, some force is at play. The force is likeabilty.   Being a well-liked person opens doors and opportunities within the … Read More

SCRIPTED MATERIAL AND AUTHENTICITY IN PICK-UP

Recently Neil has been stressing the importance of core values, or what we refer to as your Inner Game. The new Stylelife teaches these core values that can radically change all aspects of your life and make you a much more attractive person to others. He has even challenged all of us here at Stylelife to discuss our personal core … Read More

Unlock Your Critical Mind For More Confidence

What if I gave you a technique to free yourself from the part of your mind that holds you back when you practice? Would you try it? You should… Sometimes plain old dating advice is not enough.  You need to dig deeper. Mastering the Social Matrix can be a painful journey; one that requires facing rejection. If you don’t bother … Read More

Secret Agent Seduction Skills

Last year Neil asked me to join him on a trip to Las Vegas to learn some secret agent skills. It was crazy, to say the least. When I was there, Neil surprised me again, by asking me a room full of guys the seductive skills that a secret agent might use. I couldn’t have been more excited; I’ve read … Read More

Attracting Women: Your 5 Year Plan

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YOUR LIFE TOMORROW: ATTRACTING WOMEN MORE THAN EVER When Neil Strauss wrote the book The Game, he didn’t have any idea where it would lead. Imagine if he’d had a detailed plan of action for attracting women… It’s time to make yours: Have you ever heard the story of how Tony Robbins and his team changed the way riflemen trained … Read More

Passionate Storytelling Tips

One of the greatest moments you’ll have when studying seduction is this… You’ll approach someone you were initially intimidated by, you two will generate thoughtful conversation, and then you’ll hear some variation this sentence:  “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in years.” You might think that the great moment will be some feat of sexual whatever, but it’s … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. … Read More