THE LINK BETWEEN LIKEABILITY & THE SOCIAL MATRIX

You’re here because you sense something. What you sense you can’t explain, but you feel it. You’ve felt as long as you can remember, some people have an advantage over everyone else. You don’t know exactly why, but it’s there, some force is at play. The force is likeabilty.   Being a well-liked person opens doors and opportunities within the … Read More

SCRIPTED MATERIAL AND AUTHENTICITY IN PICK-UP

Recently Neil has been stressing the importance of core values, or what we refer to as your Inner Game. The new Stylelife teaches these core values that can radically change all aspects of your life and make you a much more attractive person to others. He has even challenged all of us here at Stylelife to discuss our personal core … Read More

Unlock Your Critical Mind For More Confidence

What if I gave you a technique to free yourself from the part of your mind that holds you back when you practice? Would you try it? You should… Sometimes plain old dating advice is not enough.  You need to dig deeper. Mastering the Social Matrix can be a painful journey; one that requires facing rejection. If you don’t bother … Read More

Secret Agent Seduction Skills

Last year Neil asked me to join him on a trip to Las Vegas to learn some secret agent skills. It was crazy, to say the least. When I was there, Neil surprised me again, by asking me a room full of guys the seductive skills that a secret agent might use. I couldn’t have been more excited; I’ve read … Read More

Attracting Women: Your 5 Year Plan

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YOUR LIFE TOMORROW: ATTRACTING WOMEN MORE THAN EVER When Neil Strauss wrote the book The Game, he didn’t have any idea where it would lead. Imagine if he’d had a detailed plan of action for attracting women… It’s time to make yours: Have you ever heard the story of how Tony Robbins and his team changed the way riflemen trained … Read More

Passionate Storytelling Tips

One of the greatest moments you’ll have when studying seduction is this… You’ll approach someone you were initially intimidated by, you two will generate thoughtful conversation, and then you’ll hear some variation this sentence:  “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in years.” You might think that the great moment will be some feat of sexual whatever, but it’s … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community           From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. I met … Read More

Dig Up Your Own Dirt

In interviews, journalists frequently ask me why I chose to work with this celebrity or that musician. The fact is that I’ve received scores more offers to ghost-write books than I’ve accepted. Many of these offers have been from artists and celebrities I greatly admired. And my decision to work with someone has usually come down to one question: Are … Read More

So Easy My Mother Could Do It

So, my mother has been asking random strangers whether they floss before they brush. Like dozens of them. And so far, no one has “busted” her on it, even though this opener has been all over television, in books, and on the Internet. It’s funny because she really wants to know the answer. She’s been asking waitresses, neighbors, and even … Read More

Be The Storyteller: Making Words Your Stock and Trade

Dear Stylelifers, I was flipping channels late one night and came across one of the most useful movies you can watch to improve your storytelling skills. And not just that, this classic old movie will help you realize that so many of the qualities you used to hide are actually the traits you should emphasize. Those traits will establish you … Read More