Aliens and Openers

It’s been a few weeks since I returned from a trip with Neil and a few of his friends from The Society. During our journey through the southwest, the guys role-played that they were part of a clandestine organization that dealt with uncovering alien invaders — an organization called S.M.I.L.E. Each person on the trip received a box of personalized S.M.I.L.E. business cards and a mission: Get … Read More

The Canned Material Controversy

It might surprise you, but everyone, everyday, uses canned material. Most people just aren’t aware of it. People who preach an entirely improvised style tend to stick to the most common conversational threads in the world — they are, ironically, entirely predictable. For example: “Hi,” is the most common opener in the world with common canned follow-up questions like, “Where are you from?” “What’s your … Read More

Why You’re Not Getting Attraction

Are women attracted to you? Today we want to you answer these four questions that will help you with your practice. Is your practice unfocused? Communication is a skill. Like any skill-set, there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common pitfalls students run into is practicing without a focus on something … Read More

Secret Agent Seduction Skills

Last year Neil asked me to join him on a trip to Las Vegas to learn some secret agent skills. It was crazy, to say the least. When I was there, Neil surprised me again, by asking me a room full of guys the seductive skills that a secret agent might use. I couldn’t have been more excited; I’ve read … Read More

Don’t Forget The Ending – And Other Social Storytelling Tips

Have you ever said to someone, “Oh yeah, I love that movie. It was awesome.” And that was it? You stopped. Did you know that every time you respond like that you’re wasting a potential opportunity for a romantic connection? A response to a topic as basic as movie preference is a fantastic place in conversation to build value and express … Read More