So Easy My Mother Could Do It

So, my mother has been asking random strangers whether they floss before they brush. Like dozens of them. And so far, no one has “busted” her on it, even though this opener has been all over television, in books, and on the Internet. It’s funny because she really wants to know the answer. She’s been asking waitresses, neighbors, and even … Read More

Powerful Answers For Tricky Questions (ex: “Why are you still single?”)

Recently, a couple of my students were thrown off balance when a woman asked them, “Why are you still single?” Here’s a process to create the perfect answer that answers not only that question but any questions you encounter that feel tricky to navigate. 1. When you get home, think about how you answered that question when you were in field. … Read More

Humor and Attractiveness: Quick Tips

Ask anyone you meet to name qualities they looks for in a potential date and they’ll almost always mention sense of humor. Sense of humor, however, is not well defined. What does it mean to have a good sense of humor, specifically, when it comes to dating and socializing? What should any you know when it comes to joking around? … Read More

How to Polish Your Cold Approaches and Start Comfortable Conversations

The first step in a starting a conversation is opening. To do that we use openers, techniques that allow us to start a comfortable conversation with a person or group. With practice, openers are a fantastic tool for starting a conversation. The openers we teach at Stylelife are designed to do four things: Arouse curiosity – they’re more interesting than … Read More

Scarcity & The Social Matrix

It’s time to let go. Self-doubt. Disbelief. These are self-imposed shackles on your mind. They inhibit your potential. You will not succeed at pretending to be a high-value person. You must truly know you are one. Getting stuck in a halfway place, trying hard to make it work, but not truly believing leads to disaster.  You don’t value your own time. … Read More

Likeability & The Social Matrix

You’re here because you sense something. What you sense you can’t explain, but you feel it. You’ve felt as long as you can remember, some people have an advantage over everyone else. You don’t know exactly why, but it’s there, some force is at play. The force is likeability.  Being a well-liked person opens doors and opportunities within the social matrix. Let’s explore 3 ways you … Read More

Authority & The Social Matrix

I don’t know if you’re ready to see what I want to show you. When faced with it, your mind will send you in one of two directions. You deny it. That’s that. You believe what you want to believe and life goes on as it has before. Or, you process it and dive deeper than ever into your understanding of the Social Matrix. … Read More

No Risk of Flaking: Setting Up The Date

A lot of people can get phone numbers from someone they’re interested in, but a number doesn’t always translate to a date. So unless that number sticks and you end up meeting in person again – the info is meaningless. The general way a date is set up is this: A person get’s a phone number saying something like, “We … Read More

Tweaking your openers

Let’s talk about openers. Some people make the mistake of feeling like they need to compile an endless library of openers before they approach. That’s not necessary, because, with a few tweaks, you can present one or two openers in brand new ways. Here’s a short lesson on how changing the root and the delivery can make anyone opener versatile … Read More