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When you’re out practicing you never know what’s going to happen. I remember when we were teaching a bootcamp in LA, and one of the students was terrified that if he approached a woman he was interested in, that some boyfriend/brother/husband would come and beat him up. For the most part this fear is unwarranted. When you make an approach, it shouldn’t appear as though … Read More

Why You’re Not Getting Attraction

Are You Really Practicing Social Skills? Today we want to you answer these four questions that will help you with your practice. Is your practice unfocused? Communication is a skill. Like any skill-set, there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form. One of the most common pitfalls students run into is practicing without a focus on … Read More

Is Being Alone Bad For Your Health?

As a dating coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot. The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships. That said, we don’t often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let’s stop ignoring this issue and take … Read More

How To Troubleshoot Your Attraction Game

Ready to troubleshoot your game? Here are the steps: 1. Learn to Learn The most important skill you can have, in the game and in life, is to know how to learn. If you are going out every day and doing the same thing over and over, just hoping one day that it will start working, then you haven’t learned … Read More

Secret Agent Social Skills

Last year Neil asked me to join him on a trip to Las Vegas to learn some secret agent skills. It was crazy, to say the least. When I was there, Neil surprised me again, by asking me a room full of guys the social skills that a secret agent might use. I couldn’t have been more excited; I’ve read just … Read More

Passionate Storytelling Tips

One of the greatest moments you’ll have when studying seduction is this… You’ll approach someone you were initially intimidated by, you two will generate thoughtful conversation, and then you’ll hear some variation this sentence:  “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in years.” You might think that the great moment will be some feat of sexual whatever, but it’s … Read More

Neil Strauss – The Game Has Changed

Letter to the PUA Community From The Desk of Neil Strauss Malibu, California Thursday January 28, 2016 From The Desk of Neil Strauss, Almost ten years ago, after reading The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists, a brilliant programmer living in San Francisco contacted me and asked if I was interested in helping people who’d read the book. … Read More

So Easy My Mother Could Do It

So, my mother has been asking random strangers whether they floss before they brush. Like dozens of them. And so far, no one has “busted” her on it, even though this opener has been all over television, in books, and on the Internet. It’s funny because she really wants to know the answer. She’s been asking waitresses, neighbors, and even … Read More